This article was shared with me by one of our prayer team members. It is just one of many things that God has used to move us along on this path. I trust it will touch your heart, and perhaps make you a little uncomfortable, like it did me.
October 7, 2010
Most conferences speakers are asked months ahead of time. I am sure that was the case for most of the very excellent speakers I heard at Together for Adoption. But the talk that most touched my heart was given by a substitute, asked two days before when someone else got sick.
Substitute he was. Unqualified to speak he was not. Robert Gelinas is first of all a father. He and his wife birthed one little girl, then adopted 3 kids born in America. A perfect family, they thought: two girls and two boys.
Then a woman in their church sent him a picture of a little girl named Mihret in Ethiopia who needed a family. He prayed for the little girl and then deleted her picture, thinking he’d done his duty. The next Sunday the woman asked his wife about the picture, and his wife thought their duty might go beyond just praying. They began paperwork to adopt her.
And then came the piercing question: How do you go to Ethiopia, a country with half a million orphans, and only come back with one child?
They had their homestudy written for two children, and came back home a few months later with Mihret and her brother Temesgen.
And then, after telling his story, Robert Gelinas had a question for us: How do you live in America, a country with a half a million children in foster care, and not do something?
He said, maybe Pharaoh’s daughter didn’t just go to the Nile for a bath? Maybe she knew what her daddy was doing to all those boy babies. Maybe she went to save one. Maybe she wanted her life to make a difference. She couldn’t save all the baskets floating by. But she could save one.
These days baskets are still going down the river in the U.S. foster care system. Most of them are safe for now. But they’re floating down the river, growing up, 19,000 of them aging out of the system every year without ever getting chosen by someone. Without ever having a family to call their own.
We the Church are letting those baskets go right on by. Psalm 68 says God is the Father to the fatherless, placing the lonely into families. He claims them all.
If He is the father to the fatherless, who is His bride?
The church is. We are. We are to be the mothers of these children. We can’t let those baskets keep going by us. If only the church would come together.
God has been waking up the body of Christ. Churches all over are getting more serious about caring for orphans. Possom Trot, TX is a town of 300. Pastor Martin’s wife said there are kids in foster care. We should do something about it. He said, we can’t. She said, I know we ‘can’t’ but it’s the right thing to do. He knew she was right and he told the need to his church. There are fifty families in his whole church and they took the message to heart. In that little church they adopted and fostered 130 kids.
The bride of Christ is waking up.
Six years ago Robert Gelinas took a challenge to the 1500 churches in the Denver area. At that time there were 875 kids legally free to be adopted in the Colorado foster care system. He challenged the Denver churches to commit to adopt 10% of those kids. So began Project 1:27.
Money should never get in the way of getting families for kids. When we say we can’t afford adoption, we’re saying the Father won’t provide for the fatherless, that He’s a deadbeat dad. Untrue. Our daddy is a really good daddy.
Project 1:27 set out to find families for orphans. Families would pay no more than the $50 it cost to fill out the application. For every one family willing to adopt, 3-5 other families were needed to come around that family and help out.
Right away amazing things began to happen. One man said he couldn’t adopt, but he pledged to buy bunk beds for every family that did. Another man finished basements at cost. Another person started college funds. You see, not everyone can adopt. But everyone can help. Everyone can be part of the solution. That is the body of Christ in action.
Since 1:27 started, 136 children have been adopted. 71 children have been placed in families working towards finalization. There are currently 163 more families lined up applying to be part of this program.
The number of kids in foster care in Colorado right now? 365.
The eventual goal? Zero.
They are well on their way.
Pray for our future "baskets" and for those who will be an integral part of plucking them out of the water.
Blessings,
Miki
Our family has prayed for years about being able to impact the lives of children in need. Recently, God has been stirring our hearts in a fresh way. This blog is designed for those who would be a part of this journey through prayer. We will update it regularly as we watch the hand of the living God build on this dream and make it reality.
James 1:27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Sunday, October 24, 2010
The Journey Begins
Dear Friends and Family,
I have invited you to be a part of this blog because I know, already, that you will pray for our family and the vision we've been given. I am so excited, and perhaps a little scared, to share this with you because I know that having people moved to pray will be the first step in making this a reality.
In the ten years that Frank and I have been married, we have had many people in and out of our home. We have enjoyed the challenges and the blessings that have come from being a part of their lives, helping them through a variety of situations, and watching them grow. In fact, I LOVE having a table FULL of people!
We have always wanted to adopt or foster children without parents. We just didn't know when or how that would ever happen. For the last two or three years, we have taken a sabatical of sorts from "fulltime" ministry and have concentrated on refueling ourselves for whatever might be ahead. Recently, Frank and I have sensed a significant stirring in our hearts to begin fostering on a large scale. We have been both challenged and inspired by The Big Oak Ranch in Alabama, http://www.bigoak.org/, and are praying to see whether or not the Lord would have us bring something like this to the Charlotte area.
We are in the VERY early stages of this, but it seems God has been working ahead of us. Today, after church, we heard a story about a man we have yet to meet, but already shares in our vision. While leaving a local coffee shop to go on a prayer walk, he found a penny on the ground. He picked it up and remarked to the friend accompanying him that "Orphans are like pennies. They are overlooked and seen as unimportant." They continued to the neighborhood they had planned to walk and, on entering, found a circle of 8 pennies. "Look! Our first group home." They picked up the pennies and noticed that the sidewalk in front of them had pennies all along. By the end of their walk, they had picked up over 1400 pennies.
If those pennies represented the number of orphans in the Charlotte area who could be impacted by this ministry and come to know and fall in love with the Jesus that loves them more than his own life, would you want to be a part of it?
Thus, we have Orphans Are Like Pennies, a blog who's sole pupose is to be a place where prayer warriors can come to gather information on what God has done, is doing and how they can pray. We invite you to be a part, to share this with others and to be encouraged. We know that God is moving and we are thrilled to be moving with Him.
Our first prayer request would be for the assembly of a board. We need to have people in place who know business on this scale and how to put systems into place. Second, would be a team of people who would want to love on these kids, either as house parents, mentors, tutors, grand parents or servants to just help make things run. Of course, location and finances will be key, but we're not there ....yet.
Thank you for your time, for your prayers and for being such vital parts of our lives.
I have invited you to be a part of this blog because I know, already, that you will pray for our family and the vision we've been given. I am so excited, and perhaps a little scared, to share this with you because I know that having people moved to pray will be the first step in making this a reality.
In the ten years that Frank and I have been married, we have had many people in and out of our home. We have enjoyed the challenges and the blessings that have come from being a part of their lives, helping them through a variety of situations, and watching them grow. In fact, I LOVE having a table FULL of people!
We have always wanted to adopt or foster children without parents. We just didn't know when or how that would ever happen. For the last two or three years, we have taken a sabatical of sorts from "fulltime" ministry and have concentrated on refueling ourselves for whatever might be ahead. Recently, Frank and I have sensed a significant stirring in our hearts to begin fostering on a large scale. We have been both challenged and inspired by The Big Oak Ranch in Alabama, http://www.bigoak.org/, and are praying to see whether or not the Lord would have us bring something like this to the Charlotte area.
We are in the VERY early stages of this, but it seems God has been working ahead of us. Today, after church, we heard a story about a man we have yet to meet, but already shares in our vision. While leaving a local coffee shop to go on a prayer walk, he found a penny on the ground. He picked it up and remarked to the friend accompanying him that "Orphans are like pennies. They are overlooked and seen as unimportant." They continued to the neighborhood they had planned to walk and, on entering, found a circle of 8 pennies. "Look! Our first group home." They picked up the pennies and noticed that the sidewalk in front of them had pennies all along. By the end of their walk, they had picked up over 1400 pennies.
If those pennies represented the number of orphans in the Charlotte area who could be impacted by this ministry and come to know and fall in love with the Jesus that loves them more than his own life, would you want to be a part of it?
Thus, we have Orphans Are Like Pennies, a blog who's sole pupose is to be a place where prayer warriors can come to gather information on what God has done, is doing and how they can pray. We invite you to be a part, to share this with others and to be encouraged. We know that God is moving and we are thrilled to be moving with Him.
Our first prayer request would be for the assembly of a board. We need to have people in place who know business on this scale and how to put systems into place. Second, would be a team of people who would want to love on these kids, either as house parents, mentors, tutors, grand parents or servants to just help make things run. Of course, location and finances will be key, but we're not there ....yet.
Thank you for your time, for your prayers and for being such vital parts of our lives.
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